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Relationships & Domestic Abuse

Domestic abuse is any behaviour used by one person to control, harm, or intimidate another within a relationship or family setting. It can happen between partners, ex-partners, or family members and does not always involve physical violence.

Domestic abuse can take many forms, including emotional, psychological, financial, sexual, and physical abuse. It is often about power and control and may happen over time or in a pattern of behaviour.

Domestic Abuse May Include
  • Putting you down or making you feel worthless
  • Controlling or manipulative behaviours (e.g. making you feel confused, frightened, or dependent)
  • Isolating you from family, friends, or support networks
  • Controlling your access to work, education, or income
  • Taking or restricting your money or finances
  • Threatening or causing physical harm
  • Pressuring or forcing you into sexual activity
  • Damaging property or belongings to intimidate you
  • Making threats to harm you, your children, or themselves

If someone’s behaviour causes you to feel afraid, controlled, or unsafe, this may be domestic abuse.

If you are a Parent experiencing Domestic Abuse

Domestic abuse can also have a significant impact on children and young people. You may have concerns such as:

  • Being prevented from leaving a relationship with your children
  • Worries about your children’s contact with the person causing harm
  • Concerns about providing financially or practically for your children
  • Worry that your children have been affected or traumatised
  • Concerns about your children’s safety, including risk of abduction

Children who see, hear, or experience domestic abuse are also victims and may need support.

Getting Help

If you are experiencing domestic abuse, it is important to know:

  • You are not alone
  • Support is available
  • You will be listened to without judgement
  • You will not be forced to make decisions before you are ready

What has happened to you is not your fault, and help is available for you and your children.

In an emergency, call 999

Local Support:
The Haven Wolverhampton
The Haven provides specialist support for women and children affected by domestic abuse, including safe accommodation, emotional support, and practical help.

Domestic Abuse Helpline: 08000 194 400
WhatsApp Helpline: (Mon-Fri | 10:00am – 3:00pm) 07719 558 183

 

National Support:

  • National Domestic Abuse Helpline (24 hours)
    0808 2000 247

  • Men’s Advice Line
    0808 801 0327

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